aaryn belfer.

If the girl can’t go to Paris, Paris will come to the girl.

(Still futzing with themes. I’ve decided I’m a theme slut.)

I recently completed a questionnaire for Mrs. G because she has it in her head to publish a recipe I sent her—and to those of you who know me, I say QUIT LAUGHING! I can totally cook a mean cocktail! At any rate, this questionnaire will allow Mrs. G. to write a proper disclaimer introduction.

One of the questions required a description of my Perfect Sunday Morning and describe it, I did. What I did not describe, however, was my Perfect Thursday Afternoon. I did not describe this because a) she didn’t ask me to do so, and b) I had no idea what my Perfect Thursday Afternoon was until yesterday.

After my morning beat down at the gym, I grabbed my laptop and my camera gear and headed out the door. I took myself over to George’s Camera & Video Exchange to use a gift certificate I received for my birthday last summer and I finally, finally made a most desired and very necessary love connection with one of their employees.

I haven’t been super thrilled with the service I’ve received there in the past, service that ranged from wholly disinterested—s’why I bought my 10-22mm lens at B&H—to blatantly patronizing. The latter included hands-on instruction on precisely how to remove my lens cap, a tutorial that was followed with a wink and a “Ciao, babe” as I left the store. Then again, I am only a girl. And a delicate flower of one at that.

But after convincingly discussing aperture priority and long exposures yesterday with the George’s expert, I’ve concluded that the days of uninspired service are in the past. This time, I was taken seriously by Lens Master Steve, who’s super nice, super knowledgeable and cute. See? I am just a girl. (If you’re local and need to go to George’s, make sure to ask for him.)

After further postponing Lens Master Steve’s lunch hour by carefully measuring our six degrees of separation, I decided to skip the write-in-a-coffee-shop afternoon for something a little more extravagant.

Indeed

Having recalled seeing someone working on a laptop there during the holidays, I took myself directly to my most favorite restaurant in this city, Café Chloe. I found a table by the window, sat just behind of a ray of sunlight and ordered myself a pinot noir and their moan-inducing pomme frites.

The wireless connection was irrelevant because I immediately pulled out my camera and my brand new macro filters, and—while waiting for my food—attempted to capture my happiness, my contentment, my nowness, my zen through the eye of my lens. I think I got it.

(I happen to be digging these macro filters.)

I added a smoked salmon and apple salad to my order. And then, I just sat for 45 minutes. By myself. Me. Alone. Watching the world go by outside the window. Sipping my wine, eating my frites. It was as heavenly as heaven with an L-Y at the end, and then perhaps even a little more heavenly than that. Like fresh cracked pepper heavenly.

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There was only one way to improve upon the afternoon, following—of course—the precious alone time.

And that was to be joined by the handsome man who today, is sitting on a bag of peas. Which is more manly than man with an L-Y at the end of it. Story to follow shortly.

 


19 Comments

those frites do look fabulous!

Posted by Jenn on 11 January 2008 @ 4pm

Cafe Chloe is the absolute BEST!

Posted by Jenni on 11 January 2008 @ 9pm

The frites are amazing…as are the three dipping sauces they come with. The wine is delish. The atmosphere…all of it. It’s literally like being in a foreign country. Yes, Jenni, it is The Absolute Best.

Posted by aaryn b. on 11 January 2008 @ 9pm

I love that lens. Great, porn-y food captures.

I’m currently in the market for a macro.

Posted by Melanie at BeanPaste on 11 January 2008 @ 11pm

Also, congrats on the new (albeit thematically uncommitted) place! It look great.

Posted by Melanie at BeanPaste on 11 January 2008 @ 11pm

I must say you know how to work a Thursday afternoon. And your fellow diner is handsome and, dare I say, virile(ish). It takes a real man to sit on frozen peas.

Posted by Mrs. G. on 11 January 2008 @ 11pm

And I love the new header. It’s feeling good over here.

Posted by Mrs. G. on 11 January 2008 @ 11pm

@Melanie: Thanks. And I didn’t buy a macro lens…sort of out of the budget after the camera purchase. Fifty bones got me three filters that I can use individually or in combination with each other, effectively converting my 18-75 and my wide angle into macro lenses. It really is fun going down this rabbit hole.

@Mrs. G.: After watching The Procedure today, I have to say that enduring a vasectomy is probably one of the most manly things a man can do. And thanks for the props for my site. Unfortunately, that header photo isn’t mine. But I will figure out how to get my own pics up there and hopefully have an interesting rotation. I do really like that random image, though.

Posted by Aaryn on 12 January 2008 @ 12am

Wow — I’d like this Thursday, too. The photos are lovely. Now, I’m going back to read through your old blog :-)

Posted by Mary on 12 January 2008 @ 9am

The site looks great Aaryn!
Wow. That is a super Manly thing to do. Yikes.

Posted by kerryanne on 12 January 2008 @ 10am

Lovely
afternoon
food
man
fairy goddaughter

Posted by bonzize on 12 January 2008 @ 12pm

Forgot
great new site

Posted by bonzize on 12 January 2008 @ 12pm

Love the new site!

Posted by Prof. J. on 12 January 2008 @ 2pm

I hadn’t thought of using macro filters…thanks for the idea!

Posted by Kris on 12 January 2008 @ 3pm

Tasty tale. Lovely lenswork. Adorable Aaryn. Huggable husband. (Annoying alliteration on my part.)

Try the pommes frites at Le Passage French Bistro in Carlsbad. They’re almost as good as a man with a big, hard, raging vasectomy.

Posted by Cheri on 12 January 2008 @ 3pm

I’m sorry but… I’m still laughing about the recipe part.

However, given my own cooking credentials — a woman who lives on microwave quesadillas and soup when her husband goes out of town — I should shut the f*** up.

And I will.

When I’m done snickering.

Posted by susan m on 12 January 2008 @ 10pm

I want some of those! those photos are so beautiful, and why wasn’t I there?

Posted by stacy on 13 January 2008 @ 10am

@stacy: exactly my question.

Posted by aaryn b. on 13 January 2008 @ 1pm

glad to hear Cafe Chloe is your fave…one of mine too..and for some reason a lot of my friends don’t agree..which really pisses me off! The pictures are wonderful.

Posted by Caroline on 15 January 2008 @ 11am

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