Naturally it’s totally up to you, but I think you should contribute to this raging “discussion” on the NYTimes regarding infertility and adoption:
http://well.blogs.nytimes.com/2008/06/10/voices-of-infertility/ .

FYI: A few months ago my friend of 20 years gushed to me about your blog – upon glancing at your site, I instantly became a routine reader and feel that I have learned a lot about you as an adoptive parent and child of a less than ideal birth father (I hear ya girl – big time!)

I like what I see. A lot.

As such, I immediately thought about you when reading so many of the negative comments about adoption, and the overall viewpoint that its substantially inferior form of parenthood to those that “birth their babies”.

You are so very eloquent, appear to consider multiple sides of issues, and most importantly appear to be an outstanding parent of a enormously-loved adopted daughter.

I really think you could give the readers some points to ponder, backed up by personal experience. Think about it.

e
PS Try not to let your blood boil by some of the comments – a real challenge. Although I certainly have compassion for infertile couples (to a degree…) I also hugely saddened by what appears to be the overwhelming (ironic) attitude by these very women that “Women are their uterus ergo infertile women or those that forgo childbearing by choice are pathetic members of the human species with nothing to offer society” as well as the “adopted kids are grossly inferior to my own Mini-me” attitudes that are so prevalent displayed.

Cheers.
e

Dang it.