aaryn belfer.

Get it together, California

I drove Ruby to school on Tuesday morning just like I do every Tuesday morning and as I turned from North Park Way onto 32nd Street, I saw these two angels standing on a corner.

52% of Californian's don't think this beautiful couple should have the same rights as Sam and me

They were huddled together beneath their umbrella in what had to be the first real rain storm we’ve had in San Diego in six months. They were not deterred by the weather but instead were sunny as they smiled and waved at passing cars.

After leaving Ruby, I went back to the corner and snapped a few photos through the rain drops on my lens and the tears in my eyes. This is Gina and Carla Grossini-Concha. They are in love and they were married a couple of weeks ago. They planned on a big family celebration next autumn but despite being able to convince some voters to cast their ballots against Proposition (h)8 that day, a disturbingly misguided 52% of Californians have decided that Gina and Carla aren’t entitled to the same rights to which Sam and I are entitled simply because they love each other, instead of men. Look at them:

Gina & Carla

Do you see anything but two beautiful people in love?

I believe we have a moral responsibility to stand in solidarity with Gina and Carla and all gay citizens. If you live locally, there are two rallies being held this weekend and, as Carla wrote to me in an email today, “…for the sake of the freedoms and equality that the constitution is intended to protect for everyone, please come!”

Friday 11/7/08 (TODAY!) at 9 PM
From Balboa Park -6th Ave and Laurel Street, down to City Hall

Saturday 11/8/08 at noon
From 1st Ave and University all the way down University to 30th Street


10 Comments

Yes. Yes. Yes we can.

Posted by Cheri @ Blog This Mom! on 7 November 2008 @ 3pm

I’m there in spirit! and I agree, it is not just a “gay issue” it’s a human rights issue as far as I am concerned.

Posted by Jenn, aka JeSais on 7 November 2008 @ 4pm

They are so lovely and this makes me very sad.

Posted by Kerryanne on 7 November 2008 @ 7pm

It is such a travesty.

Posted by Jenn @ Juggling Life on 7 November 2008 @ 8pm

Times like this I wish I still lived in Calif. to give my NO vote. Very sad indeed.

Posted by koehmstedt on 8 November 2008 @ 10am

There was a huge protest last night at the Mormon church’s HQ in Salt Lake City. The church released a press release that said it was “disturbed” by those who would protest them, as if we weren’t exercising our constitutional right to protest those who have decided to openly persecute gays and take away our rights.

The Mormon church was the main reason Prop 8 passed, and it was somehow totally unprepared for the immediate and huge backlash against it.

They do not comprehend what they’ve ignited.

Posted by Craig on 8 November 2008 @ 1pm

I’m just pissed off that they’re happier than me.

Posted by Last Place Finisher on 8 November 2008 @ 9pm

Definitely a sad day and it’s upsetting how money can win over decency.

Posted by Melanie @ Mel, A Dramatic Mommy on 9 November 2008 @ 7pm

Si se puede!

I was in LA this weekend, and made a point to drive by the LDS Temple in LA. Sure enough, there were supporters of the No on PropH8 present.

I honked and blew kisses of support.

I am hopeful PropH8 gets overturned in the courts for the blatant violation of civil rights legislation that it is.

So you Christian Righties? Keep blowing your money on a lost cause. Too bad you won’t put it to better use such as supporting adoption or helping families in need.

Posted by Martha on 10 November 2008 @ 12pm

yeah sister, how could anyone on the earth argue with that photo?

Posted by edwin decker on 11 November 2008 @ 2am

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