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The righting of a wrong

In February of 2004, I flew to San Francisco on a whim. My friends decided to tie the knot, take the plunge, insert-your-own-cliché here and Gavin Newsom was the only person who brave enough to let them do it. It was a Sunday and the marriages had been taking place since Friday, so the crowds [...]

One Love

I never really understand why people are hesitant to take their kids to the Gay Pride Parade. Over the weekend, I had several different conversations about it—since I’d planned to take Ruby—and got several interesting reactions. One couple I met at breakfast this morning said that they’d always wanted to go, but motioned toward their [...]

Generally speaking: Family Obama continues to rock the cheap duds

In an attempt to pin down the exact coordinates of my happy place, I’ve reinstated my pre-election policy to steer clear of news articles whose headlines make me want to fling myself from the Coronado bridge (the murder of Dr. George Tiller) or run other drivers off the road (the $4.5 billion of tobacco-company stock [...]

Mid-west values

Iowa: The real California

HuffPo: I love you but your endless news cycle is going to put me in a straight-jacket

Okay. I’m about to go off and say some totally inappropriate stuff. Just…yeah. You don’t want to see me when I’m angry. 1. Republicans have learned nothing from their failed policies. They remain more determine for their ideology to trump progress. They choose to be be anti-American obstructionists rather than becoming genuine patriots working to [...]

Still pinching myself: It’s my last column about The Messiah, I swear

(As published today in San Diego CityBeat. Oh, and I made the California Sex Offender News!!! Hilarious.) ***************************** Snuggled firmly between Tibet and India is the world’s newest democracy, a tiny country called Bhutan, where last Thursday, a very young and handsome man had a colorful raven-topped crown placed upon his head by his father, [...]

What about the ember of love?

I’m not a huge fan of Keith Olbermann. At one time I was; I found his sharp closing comments to be a welcome relief from a media that was busy giving Bush and Cheney a collective suck-off. I liked that he railed against the administration and their policies when it was so dangerous to do [...]

Get it together, California

I drove Ruby to school on Tuesday morning just like I do every Tuesday morning and as I turned from North Park Way onto 32nd Street, I saw these two angels standing on a corner. They were huddled together beneath their umbrella in what had to be the first real rain storm we’ve had in [...]