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Satisfying my wanderlust

Only robbers and gypsies say that one must never return where one has once been. -Kierkegaard
As I stood in the travel store watching Ruby thumb through a book on India, followed by one on Japan and yet another on Myanmar, it occurred to me as it often does before I travel, that there are so [...]

Life is good when I choose to let it be so

“Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn’t do than by the ones you did.  So throw off the bowlines.  Sail away from the safe harbor.  Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore.  Dream. Discover.”
-Mark Twain

Gawd Bless America

I just received the following email from one Craig Weber (cw6192007@yahoo.com) in response to my piece about choice, which I wrote earlier this year:
I know this is a little late…. just found this article today….and I must say… you are PATHETIC……you use the word “ideal” several times in describing parenting and having a child……since when [...]

The Men-Are-From-Venus thing is total crap

Did you know that the hypothalmus regulates (among other things) breathing and sexual satisfaction? Maybe that’s why, even when my man has a horrendous cold that causes fatigue, a sore throat and congestion so severe that breathing is difficult even when he’s laying perfectly motionless, he still wants to “bury his face in [my] ass.” [...]

Family day

Three years ago today, we flew to Chicago to meet Ruby. The delayed flight certainly added to our anticipation and also, the agony of our wait. Out of the (mere) 7 months that our adoption process took before our match, it was this last 36 hours before we held our daughter that were the most [...]

Keeping the dialogue about The Idler open *OR* I broke all my rules about blog-post-length with this one

(Best paired with song to the right.)
Ah, karma. She works in not-so-mysterious ways. Yesterday, I drove North to meet friends for lunch at the Stone Brewery in Escondido (if you’re local and you haven’t been, you should high tail it up there). Sam and I were deep in discussion about my last column, about The [...]

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